Sunday, May 24, 2009

Girls..don't be so stupid..

Might be you guys wondering why suddenly i post this article. I just want to cheer up all the "unfortunate" girl who suffered the broken heart..Hehe..

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GIRLS, YOU MIGHT THINK THAT YOU ARE UNLUCKY BECAUSE YOU HAD MEET SOMEONE YOU THINK IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU, BUT YOU WOULDN'T BE ABLE WITH HIM.

GIRLS, YOU MIGHT THINK GOD IS UNFAIR BECAUSE HE KNOW YOU LIKE HIM, BUT WHY YOU CAN'T END UP WITH HIM??

GIRLS, YOU MIGHT BLAME SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU CAN'T BE WITH HIM..BUT WHO SHOULD YOU BLAME OF? WHO GONNA BE YOUR VICTIM??

GIRLS, YOU MIGHT THINK YOU ARE A PERFECT MATCH FOR HIM, UNTIL YOU DECIDE YOU WANT TO DO THE BEST FOR HIM AND YOU GUYS WILL HAPPY EVER AFTER. BUT WHY ITS NOT LIKE YOU PLANNED??

GIRLS, YOU MIGHT THINK YOU HAD DONE EVERYTHING, BUT WHY YOU CAN'T BE WITH HIM??

You might feel that your life is so hard.
Everything is not fair for you.
You might think everybody was so cruel to you.
You might lose your confidence to others.
It's hard for you, to believe to others.
You might think that you are alone.
you might think they(everybody) don't understand you.
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ARE YOU SURE THIS ALL IS RIGHT??
OR..THIS IS JUST YOUR FEELING..
YOU HAVE TO CHECK??
DOUBLE CHECK..

Girls..you might think these way after you had broke up with your boyfriend..You might face all of these. You might argued about everything.

Girls, all humans had been created by our GOD with a complete package. Humans, physically is same. All men and women have same physical among themselves. They are different according to their gender, but they all are human. They have a same feeling, they might feel like you do and might think like you guys. They also might feel the sadness, happiness, disappointed, worried, hungry, lazy,sleepy and many more. Same with you.

Girls, actually broke up with your boyfriend is not the worst thing in your life..You should judge everything before you classify it. At first, you might think your were unlucky in case you have to broke up with someone you love..Erm..Please..Don't think so. You have to justify everything..Not just in your point of view. Don't be so arrogant.Please..you have to be in others shoes too. See whether it is good to have that relationship or not. Don't be so emotional, but be so professional. See all the possibilities that you might have, so that you can make a right decision.
Broke up didn't mean your relationship is finish. You guys might have other relationship, for example as a friend, as partner project, as a assistance or anything. So..don't be so emotional..Just accept everything, believe that God gonna replace him with someone else which is better then him and can make you become a perfect person. Please don't think with loosing him, you life gonna gone..It is totally wrong..

Girls, please...Don't think that way (God is unfair)..I'm begging you..
You think who are you wanna blame God (ALLAH)?? You think you know Him?? If you really know Him you won't think that way. May be you think that God won't listen to you. You did ask Him, but He never give to you.
Girls, it is not He don't want to give to you, but he knows the right time and place to give as your ask. Might be you ask for something that is inappropriate for you now,that's why He don't fulfill your request. So, please don't blame Him. Just believe in Him, He know what is the best for all of us.

If you think He don't fulfill your request, please check yourself:
-Do you think you had execute your responsibilities, so that He gonna fulfill all your request. If your answer is NO, You can't blame Him. That is why He don't answer you. You had ignore your responsibility to Him but you want Him to listen to you. Is it fair??

Girls, when you think you are a perfect match for him, are you sure?? How you know?? How you measure?? Do you think your measurement system is right?? Girls..Just don't be so selfish, it doesn't mean if you like him and he like you (hopefully) it had match you guys. Yup..It is match just for feeling because both of you feel the same..What about others?? Can you be his supporter?? can you make him become a better person when you are beside him?? Can you make him feel energy to do something?? Can you inspire him?? Don't just simply said you guys is a perfect match just because you share the same feeling.

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Actually i have a lot of things to write, but since that I'm rushing for something, so i just can't finish it..
InsyaAllah to be continue..

2 comments:

humbleServant said...

saya dah baca 2~2 entry pasal girls dont be stupid


hebat towl english insan kerdil
terasa diri ini lebih kerdil
hehe ^^,

btollah
buat per buang masa pikir benda ni
Allah bleh buat saya lebih bahagia walaupun bukan bersama dier

seyesly
I've started realize
soal perasaan dan hati ni
salah satu dugaan Allah untuk hambanya

moga2 diri ini dapat mendekatkan diri pada sang pencipta
kerana Dialah yg sebenarnya pemilik hati ini

thanks 4 de advice
rasa btol2 terhutang budi kat insan kerdil.. mungkin Allah memberikan saya dugaan ini
supaya saya dipertemukan dgn insan kerdil di dunia blog

hebat sunggoh perancangan Allah

benar2 bersyukur kerana diciptakan sebagai hambanya

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insan_kerdil said...

to humbleServent:

syukran sudi baca post ana yg x seberapa 2..

enti jgn ckp cam 2..english ana sgt2 broken, tp ana gagahkan juga buat sbb ana cuba ceriakan sahabat ana..ana nak "hadiah" sesuatu yg special buat sahabat ana..

ana x sangkan plak ramai gak sahabat2 ana yg soh ana teruskan..sbb 2 la ada yg siri ke-2..

betul 2, soal hati (bukan soal ati jer, semuanyalah) memang dugaan dr Allah, DIA nak uji sejauh mana tahap iman hambaNYA, insyaAllah jika kita memandang sesutu itu dari Allah nescaya kita xkan rasa sedih dan gelisah..

amin..moga kita semua mengejar mardhotillah...

u r most welcome =)..
jgn rasa terhutang budi dgn ana, tp ucapkan syukur pd Allah, itu semua (ilham) dr DIA, ana x buat ape2 pon..

ya, ana setuju, habat btol perancanganNYA..perancanganNYA adalah sebaik2 perancangan..

alhamdulillah..